{"id":10184,"date":"2021-01-24T15:31:09","date_gmt":"2021-01-24T15:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/qjj.ebt.mybluehost.me\/website_b2374612\/?page_id=10184"},"modified":"2026-09-08T01:37:26","modified_gmt":"2026-09-08T01:37:26","slug":"parental-coaching","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/patrickarguin.com\/en\/parental-coaching\/","title":{"rendered":"Parental Coaching"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"rightbox\">\n<div class=\"box3 family\">\n<p class=\"seott\">Parent coaching&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Helping Parents in:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Taking care of themselves (needs, boundaries, personal balance).<\/li>\n<li>Shifting from a more reactive parenting style to a more conscious and consistent approach.<\/li>\n<li>Better understanding their child&#8217;s emotional needs.<\/li>\n<li>Supporting adaptation and the development of autonomy.<\/li>\n<li>Establishing a safe and caring environment.<\/li>\n<li>Guiding rather than simply rewarding or punishing.<\/li>\n<li>Communicating with firmness, consistency, and kindness.<\/li>\n<li>Fostering mutual trust, respect, and family cooperation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/patrickarguin_reiki\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"seott\" src=\"https:\/\/patrickarguin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/bg_famille-1.png\" alt=\"Parent Coaching: nurturing kindness and autonomy\"><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"reikioffer clearfix\">\n<h3 class=\"screen\">Screen-Related Conflicts<\/h3>\n<p>If screen time has become a major issue in your child&#8217;s well-being, I can help you: first by raising their awareness of the impacts on their health and development, and then by providing you with the tools to better manage their use.\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"reikiprez\">\n<h3>Navigating Parenthood<span class=\"seott\"> with Parent Coaching<\/span>!<\/h3>\n<p>Cultivating an environment where our children can grow and thrive is a significant challenge for many parents. <strong>Harmonizing<\/strong> their needs with your own, <strong>balancing<\/strong> love and guidance, <strong>imparting values<\/strong>, and <strong>maintaining<\/strong> a harmonious family dynamic sometimes requires support and tailored means.<\/p>\n<p>My coaching aims to help you better understand certain family dynamics in order to foster more harmonious interactions and a more <strong>stable family atmosphere<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3>Beyond Good or Bad Behavior<\/h3>\n<p>Between an overly controlling and too permissive approach, there is a <strong>balance<\/strong> that emphasizes presence, collaboration, and empowerment. This approach often allows for a better <strong>understanding<\/strong> of what the child is trying to express through certain behaviors, while <strong>promoting<\/strong> their autonomy and respect for the family structure.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<h3>Individualised Education Plan (IEP) <span class=\"seott\"> with Parent Coaching<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When the situation warrants it, a plan can be implemented to structure concrete objectives <strong>tailored to your family&#8217;s reality<\/strong>. This tool, used by specialized educators, aims to support progress, active participation, and the adaptation of strategies over time.\n <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote>\n<h3>The Role of the Parent-Child Bond<\/h3>\n<p>The quality of this bond often influences the <strong>family atmosphere<\/strong>, cooperation, and the <strong>child&#8217;s sense of safety<\/strong>. A consistent, reassuring, and coherent presence can contribute to the development of their confidence and independence.<\/p>\n<p>Young children can sometimes <strong>find it difficult to manage<\/strong> their emotions and reactions <strong>alone<\/strong>. Parental support, guidance, and modeling play a crucial role in helping them learn to manage their emotions and behaviors on a daily basis. Hence, <strong>I can help you be the change you want to see in your family<\/strong>.\n<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"seott\">\n<h3>Aspects I can Help You With: <span class=\"seott\">de coach familial<\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Understanding needs, attachment, and co-regulation.<\/li>\n<li>Understanding the nervous system and its impact on emotions and behaviours.<\/li>\n<li>Greater self-awareness (needs, energy, limits).<\/li>\n<li>Greater emotional and parental stability.<\/li>\n<li>Increased availability toward the child.<\/li>\n<li>Fewer impulsive reactions, more mastery in your interactions.<\/li>\n<li>Caring and firm communication.<\/li>\n<li>Increased respect and collaboration.<\/li>\n<li>Management of difficult behaviors and conflicts.<\/li>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--h3>Seeing Beyond Rewards and Consequences<\/h3>\n\n\nMany parents were raised with a focus on <strong>\"good behavior\"<\/strong>. This approach often leads to a relationship based on <strong>control<\/strong>, thus fostering <strong>confrontation<\/strong>. However, for a child, today's submission can become tomorrow's rebellion. Developing a relationship based on <strong>connection, collaboration, and responsibility<\/strong> IS possible, and I can help you achieve it!\n\n\n<blockquote>\n\n\n<h3>Children are Needy by Design!<\/h3>\n\n\nThe consistency with which you respond to your child's needs determines the nature of their <strong>attachment<\/strong> to you, and consequently the levels of trust, complicity, and collaboration you can expect from them. Thus, although it may seem paradoxical, autonomy is first acquired through a <strong>high level of dependence<\/strong> and co-regulation in early childhood.\n\n\n\n<ul>\n\n<li><strong>Secure:<\/strong> positive responses \u2014 trust and autonomy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Anxious:<\/strong> uneven or overprotective responses \u2014 fears and dependency.<\/li>\n\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Avoidant:<\/strong> neglectful responses \u2014 protection through independence.<\/li>\n\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Disorganized:<\/strong> contradictory responses \u2014 unpredictable behaviors.<\/li>\n\n\n<\/ul>\n\n\nFrom birth to age 8, children rely on you to regulate their emotions and learn by observing. <strong>Co-regulation is key<\/strong> to  building their security, confidence, and autonomy. The <strong>struggle to regulate<\/strong> and the desire to meet needs are often behind \"bad\" behaviors. Your <strong>calm and present response<\/strong> can work wonders, whether it's for meeting their needs or setting healthy boundaries, without beeing overprotective.\n\n<\/blockquote-->\n<div class=\"reikioffer clearfix\">\n<h3>For Children Aged 4 to 8<\/h3>\n<p>Discover this wonderful educational book collection on emotional management, confidence and self-esteem!<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"margin: 1em 0 !important;\" src=\"https:\/\/patrickarguin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/oplv_livres.png\"><br \/>\n<a class=\"groslien_reiki\" href=\"https:\/\/outilspourlavie.com\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Visit Website<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<blockquote class=\"seott\">\n<h3>Stress and Unmet Needs<\/h3>\n<p>Unmet needs (security, love, belonging, autonomy, etc) tend to trigger emotions that prompt quests for solutions and appeasement, which in themselves, can also become stress inductive.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few demeanors that stem from a stress reaction (fight, flight, or freeze):<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Irritability<\/li>\n<li>Whining<\/li>\n<li>Sleeping problems<\/li>\n<li>Agressivity<\/li>\n<li>Hypersensitivity<\/li>\n<li>Anxiety<\/li>\n<li>Physical ailments<\/li>\n<li>Isolation<\/li>\n<li>Introversion<\/li>\n<li>Opposition<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"clearfix\"><strong>IN-PERSON or REMOTE SESSION<\/strong> (videoconference)\r\n<br \/>\r\nLook up my fees according to your currency <br \/><a class=\"groslien_reiki\" href=\"https:\/\/patrickarguin.com.qjj.ebt.mybluehost.me\/en\/book-a-session\/\">Book a Session<\/a><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"disclaimer\">\r\nIn addition to the Reiki cares I offer, my professional activities include interventions related to specialized education like <strong>observation, assessment, support and guidance<\/strong>, as well as those not exclusively reserved for psychotherapists, such as: <strong>support sessions, counseling, couples or family therapy, coaching, emotional education, rehabilitation, and crisis intervention<\/strong>. Also, if you are experiencing distress and require psychological treatment, it is best to consult a psychotherapist or psychologist.\r\n\r\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parent coaching&#8230; Helping Parents in: Taking care of themselves (needs, boundaries, personal balance). Shifting from a more reactive parenting style to a more conscious and consistent approach. 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